You are here as a result of a reality that you never anticipated interfering with your life's narrative. Me too. 

 

We struggle with the word "need" as women. It could seem opportunistic, egotistical, or greedy. The truth of the matter is that we need to recover. To achieve this and finish the job, we need room. We hardly ever have the time, room, or resources to do that, though. As a result, we suppress our suffering in the hopes that it would eventually go away in order to get on with life. In actuality, we start to sense aspects of ourselves fading rather than the agony. For some, the alarm that prompts her to seek assistance is the loss of self. Others come to a site like Hope Redefined because they come to the understanding that they no longer know who they are or what they need. 

 

For community, God created us. Scripture shows how individuals make decisions about their lives in communities. Unfortunately, when it comes to betrayal and the chaos it causes, the majority of women are unsure of how to find a safe community.

 

For a wife to heal, she needs her husband's physical, intellectual, spiritual, and emotional support. Her worries vanish as soon as she enters a safe environment because she is recognized, accepted, and understood. She starts to lose her self-preservation instincts because they are unnecessary in this environment, causing her heart to soften. Her feelings are allowed to be acknowledged, and she acquires the ability to express what she has been experiencing for such a long time. She observes people struggling with their faith or relationships with God while she is seated in a group. She soon realizes how God can be there for her once more and keep her safe. 

 

I waited for my hubby to get better for several years before I could. I eagerly awaited the day he would return from a group with the knowledge I required to recover. Since he was the one who had broken me, I had unintentionally anticipated him to help me. He can't heal me, that much is true. He can help our relationship get better, but he can't make me better. 

 

We may see past our husbands and learn how other people, specific assistance, and Jesus can heal us when we have a community. 

 

You deserve to get better. You are capable of recovering. Welcome to the group of people who will support you on your trip.